During the holidays, my youngest brother’s claims of boredom got me thinking about my childhood and the things that used to keep me occupied. There were times when I would be bored but at the age of eleven, I am pretty sure this was a rarity. Of course, my brother was only bored because he had been taken off the Play Station and so could think of nothing else to do. This is a problem that faces anyone who has young children or siblings and it is exacerbated by the fact that we live in the city. Yesterday, my English teacher was talking about how it is fun to grow up in the countryside as the activities that are possible are limitless rather than merely playing video games.
I think with the increase in technology, children let games do the thinking for them so their imagination is not allowed free rein to develop. I remember spending hours playing with my toy cars, imagining the wildest scenarios which at that moment in time, felt so real and exciting. To me, it was a whole different world that I could control. However, there were times when I wanted to do something different. I was lucky in that every weekend up to the age of eight, my grandparent’s house was the place that kept me entertained but even then, the role of video games began to increase in my life through the games installed on the computer. The difference between back then and children ten years later, is that for me video games were amazing, new, exciting and yes addictive but if I was not able to play them, I wouldn’t feel like a beached whale with no hope of escape. Another thing that is important is that children read. I would lose myself for hours in books after visits to the library. Just as friends in a room are all silently staring at their phones, my brothers and I would have our heads in novels, those peaceful moments must have been pure joy for my mum. Not only were we quiet and entertained, we were also educating ourselves in a way that only reading can.
Toys were important. Don’t ask my dad though as he would always complain about the great amount of toys that my mum or aunty would buy. They were important in that they offered an alternative to the television and computer. How can you expect children not to be addicted to them when there is nothing else for them to do? You have to give them a starting point, whether it is Lego, K’NEX, cars or even paper and some crayons. Something has to stimulate them and it requires an active effort. My mum would sit that with us and encourage us to do things which made us think and explore rather than sit gawking at a cartoon as our brains turn to mush. It is absurd to complain about children only playing video games when you do not play a role in providing another source of entertainment especially in this day and age when games are made to seem even more enticing and gripping.
I thought that I would write about how children today are lazy compared to children ten years ago but it is clear that they cannot be blamed for it all. Next time you tell a child to get off the Play Station, you better have something else waiting for them to do. Only then will they realise that there is more to life and then you can sit back content as you watch them develop into intelligent and experienced human beings.
12 thoughts on “Simply Telling Children To Stop Playing Video Games Will Not Work”
I completely agree with you. It’s so crazy how technology controls us these days.
Yes it is. Sometimes I wish I lived somewhere where there was more things to do outdoors. The funny thing is we tell children to get off the Play Station while we ourselves have a phone in our hand!
It’s difficult these days. Especially with the growing developments taking away open land. I love going through the toy aisle at the store, and looking up outdoor activities for my daughter. There’s so many possibilities that technology can’t provide.
Yes that is an issue. I think local parks need to be developed into more safer environments. Definitely and that is the fact children need to be made aware of.
For sure. Children need more fostered, safer environments to be able to explore without Mommy and Daddy having to watch their every move.
Totally agree 🙂
When I was a child I had the option of playing video games but I chose books because that’s what I saw in my older brothers and sisters hands. I’m so glad I did chose that because at school everyone can tell me about the latest phone or game but no one can talk about books or anything fairly imaginative. I don’t want my children to be like that and my nephews are like my children to me. That’s why they don’t have a TV but instead a huge box of many good children’s books. But if at any point they are watching something or playing a video game they become brain dead.
And I can see how proud you are of your godhood toys!!
What a great choice you made! 🙂
When children talk about the joys of reading, it almost brings tears to my eyes to see how animated and excited they become. One of my tutees described it as a completely different world in which you become immersed and when you reach the last page, even if you have read for two hours, you don’t want the book to end. He is only nine.
I think watching is worse than playing games but both can be done in moderate amounts. Of course, determining what these amounts are is challenging!
Haha oh yes I am! 🙂
Sadly they just don’t make toys like they used to. My sons toys are no where near as robust as my brothers cars which my son now plays with at my mums house!
An insightful post and a good reminder for me as a parent, although there are more factors at work than children, parents and toys.
Thank you for the read 🙂
Yes they definitely don’t which is argued by some to be due to consumerism as strong robust toys means people would buy toys less frequently.
Thank you! 🙂 Oh yes there certainly is.
When I was a kid I was always reading or writing or drawing or playing games. My favourite was when my family took a trip to the Lake District, my sister and I pretended the house and garden was an Amazonian jungle with indigenous tribes and fortune tellers. We played that game ALL week! Of course there are times when the TV or the computer can suck you in but to this day I still prefer to read, or write or be outside rather than watching TV, and I haven’t properly watched TV for over four years now which is something I’m sort of proud of.
I just wish it was acceptable for nineteen year olds to run around the park pretending to be dragons and fairies…instead I have to live with being an adult!
Haha that sounds amazing 😀 I also fondly remember the days when I would create amazing stories in my head while playing with my toys.
Oh yes if only!